The Rabbit Hole Roadmap:
A webinar for people who see "it" differently
Get to No University
A foolproof formula
for failing fabulously.
Get to No University is not a course. It's a cognitive operating system built by a Neurosparkler, for Neurosparklers and the Nearlynormies who are willing to learn a new language.
We don't teach you how to succeed by someone else's definition. We teach you how to identify the difference between what is a choice and what is simply how you are built, and design a life that fits your cognitive operating system.
What you'll stop doing after the first month:
- Apologizing for how your mind works
- Explaining yourself before you're allowed to speak
- Translating your experience into Nearlynormie-safe language
- Treating your operating system like a character flaw
- Asking whether you're too much
- Waiting for someone else to give you permission to be recognized
Critical Thinking and Communication Literacy for Cognitively Complicated Conundrums.
The Grown Up Guide to Living the Dream. Free webinar. Optional 4-week cohort.
Free. 90 minutes. Build once, use often.
Every self-help book teaches you how to say yes better. Nobody teaches you how to say no.
Not the door-slamming no. Not the cold-shoulder no. The quiet no. The one that sounds like, "Hey, can you not do that?"
If you are cognitively complicated, you have spent a lifetime saying yes to things that drained you because the no would have cost more than the yes. You learned to translate yourself into a language that did not fit, for an audience that could not hear you, in a register that asked you to disappear.
Get to No University is the curriculum I built because nobody built it for me. It teaches the four moves: Stack your STIQS, Curate your Comfort Zone, Revolutionize the Status Quo, Say NO and Ask Why. It teaches the one diagram you need: the Bird Brain Johari Window. It teaches the four birds: Eagle, Parrot, Owl, Hummingbird. Known. Blind. Hidden. Unknown.
It does not pick a side between the Neurosparkler and the Nearlynormie. Both get fluent. Nobody gets fixed.
Reclaiming the canon of consent so the Chooser Gets to Choose.
The Bird Brain Johari Window
Four ways of seeing. Four birds. Four weeks. One conversation.
Eagle
What Is visible and available to us both at this moment?
Parrot
What If we could see the view from our blind spot?
Owl
What I can see now that I cannot explain yet.
Hummingbird
What should we do next that will guide us? Living the Dream in the Meantime.
Free webinar. 4-week cohort. Recorded course.
Get to No University Live
90 minutes. Free. Build once, use often. Learn the Bird Brain Johari Window in one session and walk away with vocabulary you will use for the rest of your life.
Reserve My Seat →The 4-Week Get to No Cohort
One live session per week for four weeks. Eagle, Parrot, Owl, Hummingbird. Stack your STIQS, Curate your Comfort Zone, Revolutionize the Status Quo, Say NO and Ask Why. Homework. Optional private calls. Cohort price and dates announced after the first webinar runs.
Get on the cohort list →The Recorded Course
Available after the first live cohort runs. Self-paced. For anyone and Care Givers who can't make the live timing but still want the curriculum.
Tell me when it opens →The Rabbit Hole Roadmap
Not going down a rabbit hole without a map.
Tackle the Topic
Name the thing on the table. What is visible and available to us both at this moment.
Resolve the Referent
Find out what you really mean by the words you use. The view from your blind spot is one only someone else can offer you.
Interrogate Your Inklings
Ask the inkling what it knows. The thing you can see now that you cannot explain yet is data, not noise.
Practice Pragmatic Positivity
Decide what you do next that will guide you. Living the Dream in the Meantime is not waiting for the dream. It is the dream.
This is the map. Every cohort and every course teaches it.
If you are reading this, one of two things is true.
Either your brain arrives at the answer before the question lands and the people you love keep asking you to slow down, or you love someone whose brain does that and you have run out of ways to ask them to come back to you.
You are exhausted. You are right. You are not broken.
I built Get to No University because every self-help book I ever read taught me how to say yes better. Nobody taught me how to say no in a way that did not blow up the room. I had to invent it. Then I had to live it. Then I had to teach it to myself. Then it worked. Then I wrote it down so other Cognitively Complicated people would not have to invent it from scratch the way I did.
Come to the free webinar. Bring your skepticism. Bring the no you have been swallowing. We will give it back to you with vocabulary attached.
Auntie Paige
Get to No University Live
90 minutes. Free. The Bird Brain Johari Window in one session.
Next live session: date posted as soon as it is set.
Bring the no you have been swallowing.