Stop apologizing for how your mind works.
Start naming what you have always known but never had words for...until now.
Some things can't be understood.
But they can be recognized with the Just Right Words.
A weekly publication for Neurosparklers and the Nearlynormies who love us but can't understand how we see it/It/IT.
Six daily lenses. One word per week. No spam, ever.
Who This Is For
You've spent your whole life
translating yourself
for everyone else.
And they still can't understand you.
You've always known your brain works differently. But you never felt like you fit under the labels used to diagnose you as disordered.
You've adapted brilliantly. But being an unconventional high achiever has a cost and you've been paying it in silence.
The dream is being able to use the just right words without having to explain them first.
That's what the Neurosparkle Newsletter gives you: a room where your native language is already spoken.
With concise translation for the Nearlynormies should they choose to learn more.
The Neurosparkler
Exponentially capable. Exhausted from translating.
You've always known things before you could explain them. You process the whole picture at once, feel more than you can say, and have been told your whole life that you're too much and not enough, often in the same breath.
You're not broken. You're just in the wrong room.
The Nearlynormie
You love a Neurosparkler. You can't understand them but you desperately want to.
You're probably not the problem but you always take the blame. You're missing the vocabulary to explain what you can't see. This newsletter gives you the just right words to recognize, not decode, the person you love.
Understanding isn't required. Recognition is.
“For a Neurosparkler, Living the Dream means being able to use the just right words without having to explain them first.”
The core promise of Vision Quest LTD
Six Daily Lenses.
One Word Per Week.
Vocabulary that ends the loneliness and begins the conversation by defining it/It/IT.
The Chooser Gets to Choose
The foundational principle. Learn the difference between what is a choice and what is simply how you are built. One question that changes everything.
Strengths
What you do effortlessly that exhausts everyone else. Not your résumé strengths. Your cognitive architecture.
Temperament
The operating temperature of your nervous system. Why some environments are fuel and others are friction.
Intellect
How you take in and process information. Pattern recognition, gestalt thinking, hyperlexia, deep focus. It's your OS, not a diagnosis.
Quirks
The features that were called flaws. The things you apologized for before you had the just right words for what they actually are.
Story
The narrative you've been living inside. We don't just name what you are. We help you see how you got here, and choose where you go next.
Critical Thinking for Neurosparklers.
Communication Literacy for Cognitively Complicated Couples
The Bird Brain Johari Window
Four ways of seeing. Four Birds. One Brain. One way of being.
Eagle
What Is visible and available to us both at this moment?
Parrot
What if you can see the view from my blind spot?
Owl
What I can see now that I cannot explain yet.
Hummingbird
What should we do next that will guide us?
Get to No University teaches Cognitively Complicated Couples how to see the lens of their own Johari Window without requiring us to translate first.
The Rabbit Hole Roadmap:
A webinar for couples who see “it” differently
Get to No University
A foolproof formula
for failing fabulously.
Get to No University is not a course. It's a cognitive operating system built by a Neurosparkler, for Neurosparklers and the Nearlynormies who are willing to learn a new language.
We don't teach you how to succeed by someone else's definition. We teach you how to identify the difference between what is a choice and what is simply how you are built, and design a life that fits your cognitive operating system.
What you'll stop doing after the first month:
- Apologizing for how your mind works
- Explaining yourself before you're allowed to speak
- Translating your experience into Nearlynormie-safe language
- Treating your operating system like a character flaw
- Asking whether you're too much
- Waiting for someone else to give you permission to be recognized
Five doors. Walk through any of them.
Through the Hummingbird's Eye
A Neurosparkle Manifesto. An adult message disguised as a children's storybook.
Read the book →From the Archive
