The Chooser Gets to Choose · a principle I use at VisionQuest.LTD.
The Chooser can choose only from what is visible and available in the moment. Before asking what to choose, establish whether you are the Chooser. If the choice is not yours, yes is not an option you can grant.
Wanting something does not make it possible. A possibility may not be available. Something available may still be a choice you decline. Reclaiming the Canon of Consent begins with those distinctions.
Some matters need solving; others need observing. Understanding can be a sufficient resolution without requiring an action or fix.
My observations of particular hummingbirds in Quincy Bay helped me articulate this principle. Their stories belong in The Legend of the Bird Brains.
Explore the inquiry: Rabbit Hole Roadmap.